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ReThinking Love and Relationship

 Let’s Spare Hearts by Preparing People for Real Love Instead of Abuse and Broken Lives 

We spend more time learning to walk, read, drive than how to Love in healthy ways.  Most of us entered relationships with little or no preparation! We were often taught concepts that set us up for abuse rather than Real Love. We can spare hearts by preparing hearts! Are You ready to Join us? Let’s ReThink Love for the hearts following us!  

 

Intimate Partner Abuse statistics tell us something needs to change. Divorce rates tell us something needs to change. We are building a community to make a change,

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1/5 Women/ 1/7 men

Experience Severe Physical Violence from an Intimate Partner (IPV) CDC

 

1/5 Women/ 1/12 men

Experience Contact Sexual Violence by an Intimate Partner. CDC

1/11 Women/ 1/14 Men

Experience Dating Violence Under the age of 18 in the past 12 months. CDC

 

Latest Articles on ReThinking Love & Sparing Hearts
Preparing Children To Recognize Abusers

Preparing Children To Recognize Abusers

The summary is: Worldwide, children face high risks of sexual abuse, necessitating education in personal boundaries, consent, and respect to empower them against predators. Adults must extend this education into all community aspects, reinforcing protective behaviors and encouraging open communication. Utilizing survivors’ experiences can further inform and strengthen prevention efforts.

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Are You Ready To Spare Hearts From Abuse?

Are You Ready To Spare Hearts From Abuse?

We can either keep binding the wounds of abuse or do the hard work of preparing hearts to see it before it happens. Here, we will go over the things that abusers use to target potential victims. We will also review a few ways we can shore up those areas to raise...

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2024 & Real Love

2024 & Real Love

What Holds You Back? What do you want? Until you put it out there, you won't know it's a goal. Till it's a stated goal, you won't know how to break it into little goals! Until you break it up it will be an unsettled feeling that you try to scoot around mentally for...

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Survivors Teach Us Balance

Survivors Teach Us Balance

What are we missing? Survivors know that the secret is in the Balance.  Survivors Teach Us Balance The secret is always in the balance. The truth survivors know is that it’s not as easy to recognize dark hearts as people think.  • Never be too self-absorbed,...

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Graceful Exit

Graceful Exit

Three Ways to Leave a Toxic Relationship Without Drama Navigating a toxic relationship can be emotionally draining, and finding the courage to leave can be overwhelming. However, it's crucial to do it in a way that doesn't hurt you more than you have already been...

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Stop Glorifying Suffering

Stop Glorifying Suffering

Responding To Survivors With Wisdom Working in abuse prevention, I have a chip on my shoulder for survivors. At least I admit it up front, right? How many times do you see messages that glorify suffering to praise recovery and healing secondarily? My unequivocal...

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Questions That Protect the Heart

Questions That Protect the Heart

We all want to avoid dark hearts, people who prey on vulnerable souls. The issue is that people need to learn how to swerve around them. Questions that protect the heart will cost you little and bring huge benefits. They may spare your heart. Learning the...

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Can Love Be Too Good To Be True?

Can Love Be Too Good To Be True?

Real Love IS “too good to be true,” but we need to know it usually starts as a spark, and the warmth of the fire doesn’t incinerate us. Share this with anyone who needs tools to recognize how dark hearts effectively abuse.  Intimate Partner Violence is a real danger,...

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