Love Isn’t What Happens To You
It isn’t a bump on the head. Love is a Choice!
You don’t have to feel like you are its victim or a lottery winner.
Love is beautiful, but how you consider it will determine if you will flourish or wilt.
How many times have you heard that you can’t control Love? How many people express they are miserably under Love’s spell? How many movies have modeled Love as something akin to a magic spell that leaves you impotent?
I’m not trying to be a downer, but the truth is that attraction is something that happens to you. You get to decide if you will feed it or starve it.
When Do You Choose Love?
Love is a choice; you should keep it in your heart’s pocket until you know the person you want to give it to will hold it like a treasure.
Or time will show you that they use it like a noose. The more you Love, the tighter it gets.
Evaluating this takes time, sometimes more than you think.
That is why we are here: to spare hearts yours— and the little ones sprouting up around us.
Hope you are in!
Let’s Love Well or Not at All!