by Kimie Pearl | Apr 12, 2024 | Uncategorized
Love Isn’t What Happens To You It isn’t a bump on the head. Love is a Choice! You don’t have to feel like you are its victim or a lottery winner. Love is beautiful, but how you consider it will determine if you will flourish or wilt. How many...
by Kimie Pearl | Dec 31, 2023 | Shorts That Spare Hearts!, Uncategorized
What Holds You Back? What do you want? Until you put it out there, you won’t know it’s a goal. Till it’s a stated goal, you won’t know how to break it into little goals! Until you break it up it will be an unsettled feeling that you try to...
by Kimie Pearl | Nov 1, 2023 | Uncategorized, Understanding & Avoiding Abuse
Responding To Survivors With Wisdom Working in abuse prevention, I have a chip on my shoulder for survivors. At least I admit it up front, right? How many times do you see messages that glorify suffering to praise recovery and healing secondarily? My unequivocal...
by Kimie Pearl | Oct 5, 2023 | Uncategorized, Understanding & Avoiding Abuse
We all want to avoid dark hearts, people who prey on vulnerable souls. The issue is that people need to learn how to swerve around them. Questions that protect the heart will cost you little and bring huge benefits. They may spare your heart. Learning the...
by Kimie Pearl | Nov 6, 2021 | Preparing for Healthy Love & Relationships, Uncategorized
If Love is a verb, thankfulness is the muscle we need to “just do it.” The holidays have a way of illuminating the problems in relationships. People we will see that we’d rather not, or those we want to see that don’t return the wanting—The...
by Kimie Pearl | Oct 26, 2021 | Preparing for Healthy Love & Relationships, Uncategorized
In a world where 1/4 young women and 1/10 men experience abuse(1), culture keeps teaching us lessons. Sadly, we often refuse to let them change our path. We see all kinds of relationships from birth to death. At some point, we need to ask ourselves, what are we...
